People often wonder if they will experience "true love", and as women we are constantly looking for our prince charming. Sometimes settling, we often take the pauper and attempt to turn him into our prince, but that never works out unless we are truly willing to devote all of our time, energy, and soul to reaching that goal. Then if that doesn't work out the way we want too, we turn into bitter women before the age of twenty -five. We begin to preach to our other girlfriends about how men are no good or how we are just tired of being played and want something real. Well my question is, didn't you know that man was no good when you met him. Yes, the signs were there now let me prove it to you...
On your first date you went over his house, dorm room, or just by riding in his car you saw signs he wasn't your “prince charming” by the first thing he did, something simple as he didn't open the door for you, his room was mess, or he cursed after every word. But instead of leaving it there you decided to stick it out and try to change him. Well when that doesn’t work and once again our heart is broken, what is a girl to do. Here are five easy ways to getting over him and becoming the queen you are destined to be and remain happy instead of turning bitter.
1. Surround yourself with positive friends, you know the ones that will say “girl forget him” or “let’s go out tonight and have some fun” Those are the friends that you grew up with, the ones that know you the best. We all have those friends.
2. Listen to your break-up c.d. and cry your heart out but when that c.d. is over you need to be over it. Don’t replay it and definitely don’t dwell on it by playing it over and over. Please ladies we are trying to get over him not become obsessed with the break-up.
3. Get rid of everything that reminds you of him including the friends you all have made together. Yea, they are going to say you are acting funny but if they are true friends they will understand that sometimes we need our own space. If they don’t screw them, you don’t need them because you are on the road to recovery and those people will just be another obstacle that you don’t need.
4. EXCERSISE!!!!! Now I know this one might be a hard one for some in fact it was hard for me, but it works. When you get a good workout and start to see positive results you will feel better.
5. Self-Motivate yourself, encourage yourself to do better by setting goals in your life to accomplish and focus on them.
Now you see I DIDN’T SAY start dating again because you don’t need that added on stress. The stress of wondering if he is going to “dog you out” like the other guy did or is he going to call the next day, come on ladies you know how we think. Also please don’t blow the ex phone up trying to see what he is doing or if he is dating anyone else. And the biggest NO –NO, let’s not become facebook stalkers and try to see what he is doing-we all have been guilty of that including me. But it’s ok as long as you admit you have a problem and you stop doing it. Also, revenge is never the answer don’t become friends with the girl he is trying to be with and mess up things for them. Please don’t slash his tires or put sugar and flour in his tank it’s not worth a case, because Karma will come back to you remember that. Take care ladies and remember love yourself and everything will work out and your prince will come but first we got to stop fooling with paupers and kiss a few frogs, and it has to be one that can talk don’t just kiss any and every frog. It worked for Tiana in The Princess and the Frog”, who knows it might work for us!!!! Be Blessed.
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